el barto’d means: It is common for friends to meet up and have a few drinks. However, one person will often die before the rest. As a punishment for being the first one to retire, this unfortunate person can and should be held accountable. They are sometimes desecrated or celebrated in many ways. You can see the point. The best, and perhaps worst from the perspective of spectators, is genitalia with a digital camera. This person usually wakes up unaware of how they bonded with other people while unconscious. Sometimes, this person may become angry about learning the details of their experience. Sometimes, in very rare cases, they may laugh when others recount their story. They think they’re talking about someone else but it is not appropriate. Friendships can be formed through such experiences.
(in Open Dictionary, added by Ismael Rey)